— James Allen

The most important thing is to accept the fact that you failed. I think it's the word "failure" that scares us most. Nobody wants to brag about how many times we failed.
We have a lot of EGO and we have got to let go of it in order to succeed. It's a MUST!
You can't have both! It's the ego that is holding you back. It's the ego that is hiding the truth from you. It took me years to learn how to accept failure, it was a lot for me to take, a lot to digest! It's still hard, but I have changed my attitude towards it.
Then I learned to digest the information right away, it's really really HARD but once you do it, you feel lighter, you analyze what went wrong, what you should've done and what to do better next time. You clear your mind!!!

Read some of the most important people's failure before they succeeded http://www.linkedin.com/today/post/article/20130715085900-64875646-the-one-thing-successful-people-never-do
-NS